My first audiobook I listened to in 2020 was Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss. The book was full of information about negotiating in life and business.
Rinkel's One Line Review:
This book would be beneficial for everyone in the business field to read. The importance of being empathetic and a good listener are skills everyone should be more mindful of and practice.
My first impression of the book was...what type of feminist manifesto-stuff did I pick up. In the opening pages it mentions the idea, but it clear that is not the case. I quickly discovered Lean In encourages all readers to become better leaders, employees, and parents.
Here are my Top 10 + 1 Takeaways:
Takeaway 1: Sandberg discusses gender equality…and the concept of imposter syndrome. Early in the book, she acknowledges the things that could be worse should not stop us from trying to make them better. The promise of equality is not the same as true equality.
Takeaway 2: I love this concept…. Careers are a jungle gym, not a ladder. A survey in 2010 found that the average American had 11 jobs from the time they were 18-46.
Takeaway 3: Success is making the best choices we can…and accepting them. Do the best you can with what you’ve got.
Takeaway 4: Done is better than PERFECT.
Takeaway 5: It is impossible to control all the variables when it comes to parenting. Set obtainable goals.
Takeaway 6: Don’t be afraid to ask, even if it seems like a long shot. Every job will demand a sacrifice. The key is to avoid unnecessary sacrifice. This is extremely hard because our society values complete dedication.
Takeaway 7: In the current business model, we are told to fit in versus disrupting the status quo.
Takeaway 8: The simple act of talking openly about behavioral patterns makes the subconscious conscious.
Takeaway 9: All of us---men and women alike---have to understand and acknowledge how stereotypes and biases cloud our beliefs and perpetuate the status quo. Instead of ignoring our differences, we need to accept and transcend them.
Takeaway 10: Equal opportunity is not equal unless everyone receives encouragement that makes seizing those opportunities possible. Only then can both men and women achieve their full potential.
PLUS 1--- Fear often paralyzes us... What would you like to do if you weren’t afraid? And then go do it.
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